Showing posts with label LGBT. Show all posts
Showing posts with label LGBT. Show all posts

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Understanding: One Person at a Time

One of reasons that Prop 8 passed was that proponents aggressively went after communities of color. My cousin would tell me that she got hundreds of phone calls from people who targeted Asians. And that tactic worked. I'll admit it, I have chosen my gay family over the Asian community, even my own family.

Tonight, my cousin married an incredible man and I am now part of an amazing new family. I spent the past two days getting to know them and developed a really strong connection to the groom's mother. We just hit it off and talked for hours. Towards the end of tonight, she said to me, "I voted for Prop 8. But, after meeting you, I have changed my mind."

That blew me away. Firstly, because I wasn't expecting it. I have never hidden my life from people and I just can't help talking about M. I talk about her all the time. It has never crossed my mind that the person I'm speaking to, doesn't approve of me. I think it is these seemingly meaningless conversations with the people in our lives that spark and carry change and understanding forward.

So, I now have an African-American Christian grandmother and she has a queer Asian granddaughter. Who knew?

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Obama Proclamation on June Pride

THE WHITE HOUSE
Office of the Press Secretary

___________________________________________________________
For Immediate Release June 1, 2009

LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, AND TRANSGENDER PRIDE MONTH, 2009
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BY THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA
A PROCLAMATION

Forty years ago, patrons and supporters of the Stonewall Inn in New York City resisted police harassment that had become all too common for members of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community. Out of this resistance, the LGBT rights movement in America was born. During LGBT Pride Month, we commemorate the events of June 1969 and commit to achieving equal justice under law for LGBT Americans.

LGBT Americans have made, and continue to make, great and lasting contributions that continue to strengthen the fabric of American society. There are many well-respected LGBT leaders in all professional fields, including the arts and business communities. LGBT Americans also mobilized the Nation to respond to the domestic HIV/AIDS epidemic and have played a vital role in broadening this country's response to the HIV pandemic.

Due in no small part to the determination and dedication of the LGBT rights movement, more LGBT Americans are living their lives openly today than ever before. I am proud to be the first President to appoint openly LGBT candidates to Senate-confirmed positions in the first 100 days of an Administration. These individuals embody the best qualities we seek in public servants, and across my Administration -- in both the White House and the Federal agencies -- openly LGBT employees are doing their jobs with distinction and professionalism.

The LGBT rights movement has achieved great progress, but there is more work to be done. LGBT youth should feel safe to learn without the fear of harassment, and LGBT families and seniors should be allowed to live their lives with dignity and respect.

My Administration has partnered with the LGBT community to advance a wide range of initiatives. At the international level, I have joined efforts at the United Nations to decriminalize homosexuality around the world. Here at home, I continue to support measures to bring the full spectrum of equal rights to LGBT Americans. These measures include enhancing hate crimes laws, supporting civil unions and Federal rights for LGBT couples, outlawing discrimination in the workplace, ensuring adoption rights, and ending the existing "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy in a way that strengthens our Armed Forces and our national security. We must also commit ourselves to fighting the HIV/AIDS epidemic by both reducing the number of HIV infections and providing care and support services to people living with HIV/AIDS across the United States.

These issues affect not only the LGBT community, but also our entire Nation. As long as the promise of equality for all remains unfulfilled, all Americans are affected. If we can work together to advance the principles upon which our Nation was founded, every American will benefit. During LGBT Pride Month, I call upon the LGBT community, the Congress, and the American people to work together to promote equal rights for all, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity.

NOW, THEREFORE, I, BARACK OBAMA, President of the United States of America, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the Constitution and laws of the United States, do hereby proclaim June 2009 as Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Pride Month. I call upon the people of the United States to turn back discrimination and prejudice everywhere it exists.

IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have hereunto set my hand this first day of June, in the year of our Lord two thousand nine, and of the Independence of the United States of America the two hundred and thirty-third.

BARACK OBAMA

Friday, April 3, 2009

LGBT Women's Mixer

[in progress]



Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Longwood & My Boys

[in progress]

I originally had planned our lunch at Connelly's to celebrate St. Patrick's day. I obviously know nothing about how people party.

Monday, January 12, 2009

Saturday, December 27, 2008

Shopping, Cocktails and Support GLSEN?

Even today in a world with Ellen and gay marriage in Connecticut and Massachusetts, there are 40 states with laws against same sex marriage and many LGBT youth facing harassment or physical harm. Within the past week, there was a brutal attack of a lesbian in California and so my friends, we have a lot to do.

Luckily, we can support the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network by hanging out on a Monday night (1/12), shopping discounted designer clothes (a percentage of the proceeds will benefit GLSEN), and sipping yummy drinks. What could be easier or more fun to do something good for an organization that does so much to make schools safer for all our children?
Please contact me and let me know you'll be there!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

LGBT Financial Planning

[in progress]

PRIDE Financial Planning Workshop. Financial Advisors and Estate Planner. New steering committee member and my boys.

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

More Work for Civil Rights

Our friends C & C married this year in California.

Over 50 years after the African-American Civil Rights movement in the U.S., we have elected our first African-American president.

However, this election illuminated the bigotry and hatred that still cripples this country and the civil rights waves roll on. Women gained the right to vote in 1920 and continue to fight for the right to control their destiny. Efforts to restrict abortion were rejected in South Dakota, California and Colorado. And "among the more unusual measures on this year’s ballots was one in Florida that would repeal an old clause in the state constitution that allows legislators to bar Asian immigrants from owning land. The repeal would be symbolic, as equal protection laws would prevent lawmakers from applying the ban. With 78 percent of precincts reporting just before 11 p.m. Tuesday, the vote was close, with 52 percent voting to preserve the clause." Seriously?

California, Arizona and Florida voted to ban same-sex marriage. Arkansas passed a measure that essentially banned gays and lesbians from adopting. More than 40 states now have constitutional bans or laws against same-sex marriages. Our new president opposes same-sex marriage.

I am woman. I am the daughter of Asian immigrants. I am in an incredible relationship with another Asian women whom I love and want to protect for the rest of our lives. This is outrageous and we need to continue to expand, to engage and build.

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/06/us/politics/06ballot.html?em

President Barack Hussein Obama

Our 44th president and first family.

This has been a historic election. Having a woman as Vice President or President is a stronger possibility and not such a foreign idea in Americans' minds. Having a man whose father was from Kenya and raised as a Muslim and who later became atheist and Kenya's senior government economist happened. Having a feisty, powerful and strong black first lady who grew up on the South Side of Chicago and graduated from Princeton University and Harvard Law School is here. And two beautiful little first daughters!

This is a man who grew up working hard and ran on integrity, hope and change. He found and surrounded himself with an incredible team of brilliant and powerful people who tapped into the world that we are now and harnessed the power of the Internet. He is a man who built coalition, who brought people together. This is a man who often said the taboo words of gay, lesbian, equality.

This is bittersweet for me. I am so unbelievably overwhelmed and proud of his achievement. I am also anxious about the next few years ahead. I believe that he will be a strong leader who will bring America back into the global community and mend the wreckage of the past 8 years. He is a man who respects women and their rights. However, much damage has been done. Can anyone unravel the past 8 years (and possibly further)? Can anyone bring us out of this economic morass? Can anyone do the right thing for Guantanamo, Iraq, Afghanistan, Iran, etc? We have so overloaded our future, our children with debt - can this be corrected?

I'm not sure but I am so glad that he has stepped up to the challenge and will thoughtfully, methodically, work with the right people to make things better.

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Thursday, October 23, 2008

*ATE Ave. & My Boys











[ in progress]



Wednesday, October 1, 2008

LGBT in Leonia

My friend was a rabbi in my town for a couple of months and said that she knew of a lesbian couple. Today, on my way to work, a woman with a Henrietta Hudson (lesbian club) shirt jogged right by me. I must've had a shocked look on my face because she looked at me. I wish I said something like, "nice shirt." It would be nice to know other LBGT people in the area.

Monday, August 25, 2008

10/16 JPMorgan PRIDE Fall Wine Tasting and Networking Event

Join JPMorgan PRIDE and sit down in the cellars of VNY Broadway and learn to taste wine the Vintage New York™ way. No hype, no snobbery, just an intimate setting where you can ask the questions, get the answers and come away with confidence in your own opinions. We will taste at least 6 wines. Cost is $35 (plus Tax) per person. There are only 25 slots so reserve your spot now! Friends, family and loved ones welcome. Networking after class at the UWS Wine Bar.

LOCATION: Vintage New York - Broadway, 2492 Broadway (@93rd Street)
DATE: Thursday, October 16, 2008
TIME: 6:30 - 8:00
LINK FOR TICKETS: http://www.vintagenewyork.com/Merchant/merchant.mv?Screen=PROD&Store_Code=VNY&Product_Code=JPMPRIDE
Contacts: Me

9/21 LGBT Networking Brunch

Sunday, September 21st
Downtown Jersey City Brunch
LITM (www.litm.com)
11:00 AM - 1:00 PM
Hosted by me

9/17 JPMorganChase PRIDE and FSIX NY 2nd Annual Fall Women's Networking Event @ Eden

Networking plays an important role to one’s success – and it’s fun! JPMorganChase PRIDE and FSIX NY brought you the most attended and highly successful networking events and are partnering again to host our 2nd Annual JPMorganChase PRIDE and FSIX NY Fall Women's Networking Event at Eden - the hottest party in NYC for women. Bring your business cards, relax, reconnect with those from past women’s events and meet our colleagues from:
· MetLife GLBT Marketing Advisory Council
· Lambda Legal Education & Defense Fund
· A Different Kind of Ladies' Night
· Paul, Weiss, Rifkind, Wharton & Garrison LLP
· AXA Equitable
· Lesbian, Bisexual, Gay, Transgender Law Association (LeGAL)
· UBS
· Merrill Lynch
LYNX, the Women's Network of Out Professionals
· and more!

Please note: due to the overwhelming support of the community, please RSVP by 9/15 so that if we exceed capacity, those that RSVP have first priority.

Location: Union Square Ballroom, 27 Union Square West, NY, NY (take the N,R,L,4,5,6 to 14th Street - Union Square)
Date: Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Time: Networking starts at 6:30 PM, dj.shErOck from 8:00 PM to 3:00 AM
Other: Cash Bar, No Cover
RSVP by 9/15: http://www.f-six.org/event/public_eventdetail.asp?eventID=353
Contacts: Me